Dealing with a Persistent Neighbor’s Cat: Strategies and Considerations

Cats can be quite persistent, especially if they enjoy the attention and environment you provide. If your neighbor's cat is frequently on your porch and coming inside when you open the door, it likely sees your space as a welcoming place. Here are a few things to consider:

Understanding the Cat's Behavior

The cat may be drawn to your space for several reasons. It may find your environment comfortable or it may simply enjoy your company. Since the cat is seeking attention and comfort, you need to understand how to deal with this behavior while also respecting your neighbor and their property rights.

Minimizing Interactions

If you want her to stop coming around, try to minimize interactions with her. Attention: Since you show her attention, she may be inclined to keep returning. If you want her to go away, try to reduce the frequency and duration of your interactions. Deterrence: Use safe methods to discourage her from entering, such as safe deterrents like citrus scents or motion-activated devices.

Making Your Property Less Appealing

Make your porch less appealing by removing any comfy spots or shelter that she might find inviting. This can include removing furniture or adding barriers to the entrance. Owner Communication: If it's a concern, consider talking to your neighbor about the cat's behavior. They might help keep her at home.

What Should Not Be Done

Feeding the Cat: One of the biggest mistakes is to feed the cat. If you do, the cat will stay for life. Sometimes, the cat will decide to stay with you for several days, and there is nothing you can do about it.

Using Deterrents

Other methods of deterring the cat include:

Lemon Juice: Cats hate citrus smells. You can 'draw' a line with lemon juice around your house. It is harmless and the cat will avoid it. Motion-Activated Devices: These devices can scare off the cat without harming it. They can be effective in keeping the cat away from your doorway. Aggressive Stare: Cats know when they're dealing with someone who might feed them. If you stare at the cat with an open mouth, especially if you're laughing, it can be seen as aggression by the cat.

Coexistence with Your Neighbor's Cat

If your neighbor is fine about it and the cat has made friends with you, you can also coexist. At the vet recently, two couples found a solution where their cat made friends with each other. They mutually agreed to let the cat roam and share resources. They would message the neighbor to inform them where the cat spent the night. This setup works for them, and the cat is happy.

Ultimately, if the cat finds your home more appealing, she may continue to visit despite your efforts. It's essential to balance your desire for a peaceful environment with your neighbor's rights and the well-being of the cat.