How to Properly Thank a Veteran on Memorial Day
Believe it or not, honoring veterans wasn't a big deal for me when I was growing up, at least not until I became a veteran myself. Today, I shake the hand of every veteran I see wearing a military uniform and thank them for their service.
Understanding the Nuances of Memorial Day
It's important to distinguish between Memorial Day and Veterans Day. Memorial Day is specifically about remembering those who have died serving our country. It's not a day to be happy, given that over 2 million service members have lost their lives in conflicts and military operations. However, like any significant commemoration, it is an opportunity to reflect and pay tribute to the fallen.
On the other hand, Veterans Day is a celebration of all veterans who have served, not just those who have paid the ultimate price. Saying 'Happy Veterans Day' is appropriate, but it's not the right thing to do on Memorial Day. The sentiment is misplaced as the focus should be on those who have made the ultimate sacrifice.
Saying Thank You to a Veteran
If you do encounter a veteran on Memorial Day, the best way to interact is to be respectful and sincere. If the veteran isn't advertising their veteran status, perhaps through a hat or jacket, you can directly express gratitude for their service. Even a simple 'thank you' can make a huge difference. Veterans typically appreciate direct and heartfelt expressions of thanks.
A Personal Perspective
For me, personal experience has shaped my perspective. I have seen firsthand the impact that recognition and gratitude can have on veterans. A simple handshake and a 'thank you' can be the highlight of their day.
Additionally, visiting military cemeteries and participating in Memorial Day events are wonderful ways to honor the sacrifices made by those who have died in service. These acts of remembrance help keep their contributions to our nation alive in our collective memory.
Respect and Recognition
Remember, veterans are grateful for genuine expressions of appreciation. However, some veterans may prefer not to be thanked, especially if it makes them uncomfortable. The key is to be respectful and refrain from forcing your own feelings onto someone else. Let them work on their own emotional journey without adding to their burden.
As a living veteran, I believe that the best way to honor veterans is by recognizing them on their events, like Veterans Day, and by acknowledging those who have made the ultimate sacrifice on Memorial Day. Both days provide opportunities to show our gratitude and respect for their service and sacrifice.
So, if you encounter a veteran on Memorial Day, take a moment to thank them and perhaps visit a military cemetery. These simple acts can make a profound difference in their lives and in the collective memory of our nation.