The Undercurrent of Entitlement in Modern Society
In our changing world, the concept of entitlement often arises in various contexts. While some might equate it with the act of preparedness and resourcefulness, others argue that it can lead to a skewed perception of superiority and unfair treatment.
Entitlement vs. Preparedness
One common analogy is comparing the feeling of entitlement to the act of carrying an umbrella in the rain while others are left to get wet. A key point to note is that having an umbrella is a result of preparedness and resourcefulness, not a right or privilege.
Entitlement would be like you cannot tell if it is raining because there is always someone to run alongside you holding an umbrella.
This sentiment highlights the difference between preparedness—actively choosing to be prepared—and entitlement, which is rooted in the assumption of privilege.
Privilege and Parental Support
Another angle to consider is the role of parental support in creating a sense of entitlement. Some argue that being given an umbrella by parents fosters a false sense of resourcefulness and preparedness. The feeling of entitlement in this context arises when someone believes they have earned an umbrella through their own effort, when in fact, it was provided by someone else.
Entitlement is more like having an umbrella that was given to you by your parents but assuming that you have it through your own resourcefulness and preparedness.
It is important to recognize that receiving an umbrella from parents does not diminish the value or importance of others who might need it as well. The essence of preparedness is not about exclusivity but inclusivity.
Shared Responsibility and Community
A more empathetic approach to preparedness is to recognize that having something should imply the responsibility to share it with others who might need it. Instead of thinking of oneself as superior or entitled, one can adopt a mindset of sharing and mutual support.
My friends moved to Belgium, I miss them terribly but I bought them both umbrellas. I know they were confused, but to my delight, they are dry, and use them often!
Entitlement implies ‘better than.’ I see with the choices we make, advantages, something gained, something lost. It may be simply a lifestyle choice.
This attitude not only demonstrates preparedness but also emphasizes the value of sharing and understanding the needs of others. It reflects a more inclusive and empathetic approach to preparedness, promoting a sense of community and mutual support.
The Choice to Be Entitled or Prepared
The debate between entitlement and preparedness ultimately boils down to choice. While some may choose to carry an umbrella and take the risk of getting wet, others might prioritize other aspects of life. The key is recognizing the different paths one can take and understanding the implications of each choice.
No, these choices are based on lifestyle and perspective. The feeling of entitlement can be a result of having something given to you and assuming it's due to your own resourcefulness, while preparedness is a personal choice to be ready for any situation.
Whether one chooses to leverage the advantages of preparedness or to adopt a more laid-back, improvisational approach, the underlying principle is to respect and understand the choices others make and to recognize that true preparedness fosters a sense of community and shared benefit.