Why OTD Jews Remain Outside Orthodox Observance
Many believe that OTD (Out of the Dot) Jews drift away from Orthodox practices primarily because they are atheists or simply do not agree with the rules and mindset that drive ultra-Orthodoxy. However, a closer look reveals that the reasons behind their departure are often more complex. This article explores the deeper motivations and reasons for non-observance among OTD Jews and provides insights for those interested in understanding and perhaps reuniting with their heritage.
Reasons Beyond Atheism
It has been observed that many OTD Jews are not necessarily outright atheists but are instead deeply unsettled by the rigid adherence to certain rules and perspectives that drive ultra-Orthodox (Ultra-Orthodox, or Ultrafrontist) Judaism. For many, the practices and mindsets of ultra-Orthodoxy seem disconnected from the historical and conceptual roots of Judaism. This sentiment is not unique to younger generations but is prevalent even within conservative synagogues, where many older members were once part of Orthodox congregations.
Some members of the older generation in conservative synagogues, especially those whose sages aligned more with earlier generations of Jewish thought, find it difficult to morally justify many of the Orthodox practices based on traditional Jewish law. This sentiment is particularly strong in the context of modern and secular Jewish thought which values personal reflection and moral autonomy.
Discernment and Personal Freedom
The journey away from Orthodox observance is not just about dissatisfaction, but also about a quest for personal freedom and discernment. Many find that the rules and rituals of Orthodox Judaism no longer resonate with their worldview, especially as they navigate the complexities of a modern, secular society.
One of the primary reasons for non-observance is the lack of belief in the need for adherence to the law without any underlying belief. For instance, the idea that one should not use the train on the Sabbath or consume non-kosher foods like a lamb sandwich with yogurt sauce is rooted in the belief that these practices carry divine commandments and eternal significance. Without such a belief, the observance of these practices seems futile and an unnecessary constraint on one's freedom.
The Quest for a Modern, Balanced Life
Many OTD Jews do not wish to follow the hyper-strict rules of Orthodox Judaism because they do not see them as relevant in the 21st century. For instance, the lack of kosher restaurants in many areas can be a significant challenge. Much of the kosher certification process is designed to ensure the highest standards of food safety and ethical treatment of animals, which many feel are already achieved through modern standards of meat inspection and humane slaughter. This pragmatic approach often prevails over the traditional dietary restrictions.
Additionally, many OTD Jews find that life in a secular, American environment can be fulfilling and enriching. Engaging in weekend activities such as sports and community events becomes important for many, including their desire to support their families and children. This lifestyle choice does not necessarily mean a rejection of their heritage, but rather a reinterpretation of how it can be lived in a practical and meaningful way.
Belief vs. Lifestyle
It is also worth noting that belief is not always the determining factor in choosing or rejecting an Orthodox lifestyle. Many Jews who are skeptical of the traditional beliefs about Torah as the word of God are still drawn to the disciplined lifestyle and the close-knit community that Orthodoxy offers. The sense of belonging and the support network provided by the Orthodox community can be incredibly valuable, even for those who do not subscribe to the religious beliefs.
In conclusion, the reasons for OTD Jews not returning to Orthodox observance are multi-faceted and often rooted in personal beliefs, pragmatic considerations, and a desire for a balanced and fulfilling modern life. Understanding these dynamics can help foster a more inclusive and compassionate approach to engaging with those who have chosen this path.